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 A lot of people in search of their destiny are included in the World Wide Web. On dating sites, single and even married people try to get to know each other, have an affair or get married. But many are stopped by the fear of facing perverts, gigolos. How realistic is it to meet your love on the Internet? I began to look for the answer to this question, turning to the regulars of these sites and ordinary passers-by.
As told 30-year-old Vadim (it can be found every day on the well-known international dating portal), the most popular among those seeking amorous adventures are 3 Russian sites. One has easy navigation, brightly decorated. "But those who avoid dubious sentences like" sex for 1-2 times "should not appear there," Vadim specified. The second and third are more "moderate". True, the one who registers on them is also not immune from virtual and real meetings with dishonest people. The goal of many is to find out more about the interlocutor and make an appointment.
Regulars use the concept of "virtual" - virtual communication on the topic of sex and love with elements of courtship, that is, a novel on the Internet. Continue acquaintance by making a date, in their language - "go to real life." Some "wirt" for years, some for several days. The more daring have from one to 10-15 dates and 2-3 novels.
Here is the story 29-year-old Oksana:
"In our city, like in a fairy tale, all the good guys are either married or busy. There are only drug addicts and those who love to drink and love one thing for nothing and for nothing ...
Although I'm looking for someone, it's harder for me. I have been married for a long time. And the choice we have is higher. So I came across a married man. Even regret takes. So many feelings, so many emotions. And all the words about divorce were not at all confirmed by actions. So I decided to leave. See from afar how many noodles they hung on me ...
Are there any good ones on the site? Those who are good there are afraid to go to real life, and the ugly ones immediately call there. That's the whole section of men in two parts. "
29-year-old Natalia and her peer Andrey We met on the site a year and a half ago. They talked virtually for 2 months, after which they went live and, in the end, struck up a romantic relationship. “Soon we began to live together,” Natalya said. “We got used to each other for about a year. During this time, I continued to exchange messages on the site, but did not meet with anyone. And last year in the fall we finally got married. Now I am doing well. Andrey is doing everything to make me feel happy and loved. "
Love story 28-year-old Larissa and her 30-year-old chosen one Victor very similar to the one above. “Two years ago, in search of my destiny, I went to the same dating portal, created a profile, uploaded a photo and began to look for suitable candidates. Among those with whom I corresponded vividly, there was also the desired“ prince, ”the woman said. it was he, she was convinced after several dates. Ardent courtship and recognition did their job - Larisa fell in love. Soon the whirlwind romance grew into something more serious. The lovers rented an apartment and began to live together. And although it has not yet come to the wedding, Larisa, like Natalia, I haven't left the site.
The novel continues for almost six months in "real life" 34-year-old Julia and 35-year-old Vasily... It was preceded by a short correspondence on a well-known dating portal. “From the moment of creating my profile to our meeting, a year passed,” Yulia recalled. “For him, I got acquainted,“ virtually ”with several men, went on dates, but I only liked Vasily. We have a lot in common, because he also works in the sphere of economics ".
There are few such examples of happy ones, especially since many couples in love prefer not to advertise the "virtual" beginning of their acquaintance. And the very presence of such lucky ones demonstrates the possibility of a successful search for love in the World Wide Web.
Not everyone agrees, as the following express survey of passers-by on the streets proves.
Catherine, nurse:
- I communicated with those who often visit these sites. These are, as a rule, those who have nothing to do, or divorced with children, or ladies' man. A friend of mine barely got rid of one "Casanova" who was having an affair with three of the same women.
Therefore, I think it is difficult to find your destiny on the Internet. It's like a lottery - lucky - unlucky. I haven’t tried it, but if I hadn’t been married, I might have taken the risk.
Veronica, student:
- I am an optimist and I think that there is nothing to be afraid of. Everything on the site is civilized: photos, profiles, description of habits, character. And in life you look at random, not knowing who is in front of you. Therefore, you will make mistakes, and you will regret. And most importantly, there is often no time to think and weigh. On the Internet, there is nowhere to rush, you can analyze the advantages and disadvantages well by making the right choice.
It is difficult to disagree with the last statement of Veronica, because the heart is the heart, but the mind must also be involved. And it seems that more and more people are using the indicated advantages of the World Wide Web in search of love. This is evidenced by the statistics of attendance of dating portals. If the positive dynamics continues, then the level of public confidence in electronic matchmaking sites will undoubtedly grow. Well, wait and see.
Inna Ivolgina
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