Husband criticizes

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Husband criticizesWhen a loved one becomes a spouse, romantic relationships gradually fade away in many married couples. The husband has unfounded nagging, and offensive statements about his wife are heard more and more often. Criticism becomes an integral part of your family life, which develops into constant quarrels.

Criticism in itself is not very pleasant, but if the husband criticizes, then she simply pisses off her. When a husband is not satisfied with something in his wife and in a conversation he chooses words that convey the meaning of what he wants to his wife, then such criticism is constructive and objective. But the conversation is not always smooth and reasonable. Most men express their criticism in a rude form, and sometimes they like to reproach in the company of strangers. And the reproaches are not always supported by specific reasons, therefore such criticism is not constructive. So why does your husband criticize you?

Criticism from the husband mainly shows his attitude towards his wife. If he is indifferent to her, and many years of marriage are not allowed to divorce, then the husband will reproach you for the most insignificant trifles. Even if there is simply nothing to criticize for, such a person will still find a reason.

Many husbands try to assert themselves at the expense of their wife. Whatever she does, he considers wrong, so they immediately tell her about it. And to the question "Why am I doing it wrong?" you can hardly wait for clear explanations. So men feel stronger and more confident, although in reality such husbands simply have low self-esteem. Therefore, it is easier for them to find fault with their soul mate than to show their weakness. And to please such people is almost impossible.

Husband criticizesIf the husband has problems at work, then a bad mood falls on people close to him, and first of all on his own wife. It is not difficult to make a critical remark to an angry person. Unfortunately, this is the most common problem in our families.

When a husband makes claims like “You don’t love me, you don’t understand me,” he simply shifts the responsibility onto you - it’s easier to blame the other. This is typically male infantile behavior. Although in fact, maybe he stopped loving you, but does not want to say directly or is afraid. The husband simply sets the "framework", although the reasons for the reproaches are not always clear and it is not possible for his wife to fulfill all the requirements.

Well, if your husband bombards you with reproaches like "You got fat!" or "You are ugly!", it means that he is just jealous of his friends or other men. He constantly compares you to other people's wives, looking for new flaws in you. This speaks of the man's indecision and, again, of his weakness and self-doubt.

Therefore, it is necessary to take certain measures in the fight against criticism of the husband after the reasons for this very criticism have been clarified. And if you still want to live with such a husband all your life, then you will have to put up with it and not pay attention. After all, as you know, men do not lend themselves well to re-education.

Katty


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