How to build confidence in your child

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How to build confidence in your childIf you want your child to be able to easily and smilingly conquer the world, then start developing confidence in it. It will be easier for him to adapt to a new team, make new acquaintances, and quickly find friends for himself. A quality like confidence is very closely related to love. Your love for your child, its manifestation, tells him that he is important to you, that he is worthy of your love. Thus, you instill in him the skills of self-love, the ability to perceive his own characteristics and accept himself as he is. If the baby feels out of danger, he ceases to be afraid of new events in his life: the first step, riding a bicycle, etc.

There are different ways to demonstrate love for a child, and it must be shown constantly and tirelessly. Words, even the most eloquent ones, about how you love him are not enough. You need to express your love for the baby with all your actions. Let it be joint games, common affairs, gentle gestures.

It is very important not to hesitate to hug your child once again, so that he feels your love, the warmth of your heart. Make your baby laugh and openly react to his desire to make you laugh, come up with funny stories together, fantasize, create, do not restrain your emotions. So you will become closer to your child, and he will feel a real friend in you. Never leave a crumb in tears without finding out the reason for his cry. Help him cope with a difficult situation.

A child feels much more confident if he sees the adult's care for him and can always count on the parent not to leave him and come to the rescue. It is much easier for a kid to master new sides of life and start unfamiliar business, because he is sure that he is not alone, that you will always come to his aid, whatever it may be: building a fortress from blocks or a desire to make friends with new children in the sandbox. Remember that a child needs not only warm words, he needs a feeling of warmth, comfort and support in his family.

How to build confidence in your childOf course, your child's safety is the most important thing, but this should not be confused with overprotection. Let your little one discover the world around him. For a start, let it be a self-poured glass of juice, a washed cup, collected toys. Not always everything turns out perfectly right away, but no one is born a great craftsman. Everything in life must be learned!

Be especially attentive to the child's desire to tell you something, even if this babble is not entirely clear and there is not enough time to listen to the child. Try to leave all business and listen to your child, answer his questions, tell him what he wanted to know. The kid must be sure that you are not indifferent to him or her, and you want to be aware of all the events that excite and delight him.

For a child, very often, much in the world around him is incomprehensible. For example, why you can't take other people's things, but you need to share your sweets with others. Try to explain to him why you need to do this and not otherwise, why some actions are good, and others are not. Try not to yell at the child and not force him to do as you think is right. Explain clearly so that he can understand. Thanks to this, it will be easier for the child to enter the world around him, make the right choice, and avoid dangerous life situations.

Praise your child and do not skimp on affectionate words. Notice any independent actions of the baby, try to say a kind word to him and note his independence and confidence. The mother's positive reaction will stimulate the child's further actions.He will understand that it is worth doing good deeds if they cause the joy of the person who is closest and most important to him.

Pay attention to yourself, to your behavior in new situations. Is everything easy for you in this world? Are you decisively going for change? Or maybe you are trying to get around sharp corners? If insecurity is one of the traits that you prefer not to talk about, but the absence of which, you know very well, then you should start working on yourself. Being insecure, you are unlikely to be able to educate this property in your baby. Your life experience, actions, words are the biggest and most important life example for a child. What is in you will be transferred to the baby.

Fedorov S.


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