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 Modern mothers often go to work when the baby is not even a year old. They are pushed to such a step by the need to support themselves and the baby, the desire to self-actualize, the fear of losing a good job, and many other reasons. It is quite rare to meet mothers who voluntarily agree to raise their baby up to sending him to school. Is it the right thing to do this? Let's figure it out in this article.
For a newborn baby, the mother is the main source of new interests, impressions and strength to explore the world around her. Communication and interaction with this loved one is in itself a developmental activity. The kid learns to hear, see, perceive, move - in everything he is helped by his mother, who plays the role of both a teacher, and a nanny, and a friend. Until a year and a half, communication with a mother is most important for a baby. A prolonged absence of a mother, a forced stay with a stranger (s) can be so stressful for a baby that it will affect his ability to establish communication and learn new things. Therefore, psychologists strongly do not recommend sending a child at this age to a kindergarten. If you need the help of a qualified specialist, go to his appointment and find out the questions of interest.
In the age range of 1.5-3 years, the baby begins to develop literally by the hour. He starts one thing, takes on another and finishes with the third: draws, sculpts, dances. And the mother, on whom all the household chores, feeding the child, caring for him and walking, often lie, often simply does not have time for developmental activities. It would seem that this is the time when you need to give your child to the garden! But there are also pitfalls here. At this age, it is very difficult for a child to follow certain rules and regimen. He does what he wants and how he wants. Going to kindergarten, where discipline is required of all kids, can cause a storm of negative emotions.
Besides, the connection with my mother is still too strong. The baby still needs her support and careful care (after all, in kindergarten, they do not always have time to change the same wet pants on time). But not every mother will be able to show rigor, consistency and professionalism in teaching. It is much better to cope with this a stranger, whose requirements the baby will fulfill. Therefore, the ideal option at this age would be to visit development groups several times a week. So the child will learn to build relationships with other team members, acquire and improve new skills, and will not lose touch with his mother.
But after 3-4 years, the child is simply shown a visit to kindergarten. The need for communication and social interaction is extremely high. In addition, it is time for the baby to get ready for school, get used to a certain routine, learn to practice for a long time, intensively and diligently. Therefore, feel free to send your child to kindergarten upbringing, but do not forget about the importance of the family environment. After all, it is thanks to him that the child not only broadens his horizons, but also learns to achieve goals, to be interested and successful.
Kish A.Yu.
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